Written by Fiona Blenman
Nature’s Gender Balance.
In our society, shaped by gender and its associated roles, we can essentially say that this topic is binary. It comprises two sides that exist on a spectrum. This spectrum is influenced by behavior and physical traits as every individual falls within this framework.
In my blog; “What is Conscious Energy?” I discussed the contrasting nature of consciousness and energy, and highlighted how everything in existence arises from the interplay between these two forces. We recognized that consciousness reflects feminine characteristics. Energy demonstrates masculine qualities. These qualities represent the opposing contrasts between the divine God and Goddess representing the Yin and Yang duality of nature.
| CONSCIOUSNESS (YIN) | ENERGY (YANG) | |
| Force: | Negative (electrons) – | Positive (protons) + |
| Gender: | Feminine (Goddess) | Masculine (God) |
| Elements: | Air and Water | Earth and Fire |
| State of Matter: | Cold and Moist (Fluid) | Hot and Firm (Solid) |
| Time: | Night | Day |
| Celestial body: | Moon | Sun |
| Embodiment: | Mind | Spirit |
| Pure form: | Wisdom | Love |
| Earth representation: | Wind, Oceans | Rock, Lava |
| Purpose: | Guides, Nurtures | Builds, Protects |
| Behaviour: | Passive, Stillness | Assertive, Active |
Men and women occupy different positions on the gender spectrum. By exploring the nuances of these associations, we can gain insight into their distinctions.
Conscious Energy Shaping Genders.
Consciousness resembles a woman’s body by encompassing air and water as the primary elements. For example, in contrast, a woman’s body is soft, cool, and fluid compared to a man’s body. Guided by the elements of air and water, a woman is consequently more susceptible to the influences of mental and emotional experiences.
Governed by the forces of consciousness, women have stronger minds and weaker bodies. A woman’s mind and emotions are intricately guided by seasonal and celestial cycles. Her body goes through monthly phases with the moon, each cycle offering transformative opportunities that prepare her body for nurturing new life.
Energy resembles a man’s body by harnessing the elements of earth and fire. Specifically, this means that a man’s body is firm, rigid, and holds more heat than a woman’s body. Consequently, controlled by the elements of earth and fire, this more substantial physicality leaves a man at the mercy of various physical and spiritual influences, thus shaping his experiences and interactions with the world around him.
Men possess stronger bodies and less consciousness, often leading them to navigate life with an emphasis on tangible results. Motivated by ego and possessions, he seeks status and security through material means, often defining himself by the strength of his accomplishments. Instincts drive him to control his environment, pushing him to assert dominance over his surroundings. This drive is not merely for personal gain; it is necessary for the provision and safety of his colony, fostering a sense of responsibility among those he protects.
Appreciating Gender Differences.
Many studies have explored how the human brain functions. Neuroscientists can attest to significant differences between male and female brains. These differences are in terms of size, composition, and neural pathways, which influence various cognitive processes and behaviors.
There’s an interesting viewpoint about the differences between the two extremes; specifically, women, who have a high consciousness to energy ratio, often talk and think extensively without completing tasks, thereby showcasing their tendency to engage in detailed discussions and reflect upon multiple perspectives simultaneously! Conversely, men, characterized by a high energy to consciousness ratio, do things without thinking; instead, they often pursue action-oriented tasks with a focus on results rather than contemplation.
This dynamic, therefore, highlights the potential benefits of a balanced relationship between men and women, where each can learn from the other’s strengths and weaknesses. Moreover, acknowledging how each gender operates concerning their mental or physical nature can be mutually beneficial, leading to enhanced communication and collaboration in both personal and professional settings. Furthermore, by embracing these differences, society can foster an environment that values the unique contributions of both genders, ultimately promoting harmony and understanding across diverse interactions.
Gender Roles Overlapping.
We have discussed the fundamental extremes that characterize masculine and feminine traits; consequently, these traits significantly influence the behaviors of both genders. Moreover, in the space between these two genders, roles often overlap, as individuals, for instance, show characteristics of the opposite gender.
Some people, for instance, strictly adhere to masculine or feminine roles. However, in reality, nearly everyone embodies a blend of both traits. Moreover, we all share the same essence of consciousness and energy!
To emphasize this concept, indeed, every human being exists on a spectrum of male and female characteristics, and this idea, therefore, connects to our individual experiences.
Our lives embody an internal equilibrium of consciousness and energy; consequently, this expresses itself as either male or female at the moment of conception!
While you may exhibit male characteristics, or female attributes, this does not necessarily align with your personality traits!
Gender Functions vs Identity.
We recognize that there is a wide range of individuals throughout our communities! Some classify as either binary (male or female). Others identify as part of the LGBTQIA+ community. A rigid gender framework does not encompass everyone’s experiences! This is largely due to an individual confusing the topics of SEX vs GENDER, and their ability to dissociate from their physical reality.
Each person’s position on the gender spectrum showcases their masculinity or femininity. This contrasts with their physical manifestation as male or female at birth.
A female may show more masculine traits. Her role in her upbringing might influence this, or her environment might force her to fulfill more masculine duties, which often include lifting materials for building, engaging in competitive sports, or taking charge in leadership roles. These experiences can foster resilience and assertiveness, characteristics traditionally associated with masculinity.
On the other hand, a man might show more feminine traits if he doesn’t use his physical strength and resources, especially in environments that prioritize emotional intelligence, communication, and collaboration. He may also show these traits if he has to take on more nurturing responsibilities, such as caring for children or supporting friends emotionally, which can require a softer and lighter approach. There are many factors throughout one’s lifetime that can influence gender roles, sexual orientation, and character traits, including media representation, cultural expectations, personal experiences, and evolving societal norms, ultimately leading to a more complex understanding of identity that transcends traditional gender binaries.
Gender Identity and Expression.
A person’s sexual identification – whether straight, bisexual, gay, transgender, or something else – reflects their personal experiences. Consequently, these experiences influence how they openly express themselves and navigate the complexities of relationships and societal expectations. Moreover, it is a deeply individual matter that relates solely to their unique life journey, which is clear in their character and the choices they make along the way.
Each person’s story is a tapestry of emotions, challenges, and triumphs that shape their identity. Therefore, no one is obligated to alter their self-perception or conform to a biased standard imposed by others.
Gender is simply one element of the vast puzzle that contributes to the diversity and vibrancy of our world, along with culture, ethnicity, and personal values, all of which play significant roles in shaping one’s perspective and interactions within society.
In my next post, I will discuss how consciousness and energy affect skin color diversity worldwide.
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